January 22, 2025

The Cast of the TV Show Thirtysomething: 38 Years Later – Where Are They Now?

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Cast of Thirtysomething - photo by Alan Light, CC BY 2.0, via Wikimedia Commons

When Thirtysomething debuted on ABC in 1987, it struck a deep chord with viewers. The show followed a group of baby boomers navigating the challenges of marriage, parenthood, friendship, and careers in their thirties. It wasn’t just a TV show—it was a cultural phenomenon praised for its realistic portrayal of relationships and emotions.

Now, decades later, many fans wonder what became of the talented cast who brought those beloved characters to life. Let’s take a look at where the stars of Thirtysomething are today.


Ken Olin (Michael Steadman)

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Ken Olin, who played the sensitive and idealistic Michael Steadman, transitioned seamlessly from acting to a successful career behind the camera. Olin has become a sought-after producer and director, with credits on hit TV shows like Alias, Brothers & Sisters, and the critically acclaimed This Is Us. He’s also active on social media, engaging with fans and sharing updates on his projects.

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Mel Harris (Hope Murdoch Steadman)

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Mel Harris portrayed Hope, Michael’s wife and a woman balancing motherhood with her aspirations. After Thirtysomething, Harris appeared in various TV shows and films, including Something So Right and Stargate SG-1. She continues to act occasionally and has taken on guest roles in shows like The West Wing and Law & Order: Special Victims Unit.

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Timothy Busfield (Elliot Weston)

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Timothy Busfield brought humor and depth to the role of Elliot Weston, Michael’s best friend and business partner. Busfield remains a prolific actor and director, with appearances in The West Wing, Studio 60 on the Sunset Strip, and The Rookie. Behind the camera, he’s directed episodes of popular series like Without a Trace and Scorpion. He’s also married to actress Melissa Gilbert, known for her role in Little House on the Prairie.

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Patricia Wettig (Nancy Krieger Weston)

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Patricia Wettig’s portrayal of Nancy, Elliot’s wife and a breast cancer survivor, earned her three Emmy Awards. After Thirtysomething, Wettig appeared in shows like Prison Break and Brothers & Sisters, where she reunited with her husband, Ken Olin, who produced the series. In addition to acting, Wettig is also an accomplished playwright.

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Peter Horton (Gary Shepherd)

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Gary Shepherd, the charming professor and best friend of Michael and Elliot, was played by Peter Horton. While Horton stepped back from acting, he’s become a powerhouse producer and director, working on shows such as Grey’s Anatomy and New Amsterdam. Horton’s work behind the scenes has made a significant impact on modern television.

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Polly Draper (Ellyn Warren)

Polly Draper played Ellyn Warren, Hope’s independent and career-focused best friend. Draper continued acting and branched out into writing and directing. She is perhaps best known as the creator of The Naked Brothers Band, a Nickelodeon series starring her real-life sons, Nat and Alex Wolff. Draper remains active in the industry, recently appearing in independent films and stage productions.


Melanie Mayron (Melissa Steadman)

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Melanie Mayron’s portrayal of Michael’s cousin Melissa, a photographer searching for love and purpose, resonated with many viewers. Mayron has since found success as a director, working on shows like Jane the Virgin, This Is Us, and Grace and Frankie. She also co-founded Mayron’s Goods, a skincare company specializing in baby products.

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The Legacy of Thirtysomething

The influence of Thirtysomething endures, with its exploration of universal themes like love, loss, and personal growth remaining relevant. In 2020, a reboot called Thirtysomething(else) was announced, featuring some original cast members alongside a new generation of characters. Unfortunately, the project didn’t move forward, but fans are still holding out hope for more.


Life Moves On

The cast of Thirtysomething has gone on to build impressive careers in Hollywood, both in front of and behind the camera. At the same time, the show captured a specific moment, and its memory lives on, thanks to the talented actors who brought its characters to life. Whether revisiting the series or discovering it for the first time, Thirtysomething remains a timeless exploration of the human experience.

Which Thirtysomething character was your favorite? Let us know in the comments!

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Annette Hinshaw is a retired businesswoman from Adrian Michigan, where she was a business owner for several decades. Annette is keenly interested in architecture and homemaking.

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